And if we follow everything around us, with the many attractive programs and schemes, we'd all go nuts not really knowing which one works.
And we'd all go broke, too.
Perhaps, you must just follow your true self and character and be with programs that resonate well with your being.
You must join programs that work for you and which make you happy.
You must not force yourself to join programs or create programs just because everyone's in it or it is expected of you.
Success is sweeter when you are happy doing what you're doing, with people you enjoy being with, and who are true to you.
As with everything else, the rules are pretty simple and in fact, there are really no rules except the ones that matter to you.
We also believe that universal and man-made systems are self-regulating systems.
There is always a balance to everything, just as there is always chaos, but one of the real things is what Oliver Wendell Holmes spoke of:
"Systems die -- instincts remain."
Now, we're not really sure which Oliver Wendell Holmes wrote that but we're including both here for they're both great men anyway:
Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.
Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.
There is probably not one perfect program for everyone to join but only that which, on the deeper level, feels right to you.
Your instincts will guide you to that.
You must have a good grasp of who you are, what you want, and the process you're ready to go into.
As always, intentions are everything.
If you aim to help, you will probably succeed.
If you aim to take along others as you're succeeding, then you have the mark of a true leader.
If you aim to study others who have carved the path ahead of you, believing their work makes sense and you wish to test it for yourself -- taking full risk -- then you have the makings of an Alpha Dog.
If anything else, you must develop your own thinking. Be not at the mercy of the winds or of fate.
Be your own true self in life and in work.
That way, people can't really influence your thinking -- unless you want them to.
Take that middle path, like a lighthouse or an anchor, where you are at your steadiest.
Systems come, systems go. Programs come, programs go. Will you still be standing?
You will, if you're like a lighthouse or anchor, moored safely, and yet aiding others on their "path".
It's good to test, but remain steadfast in your beliefs and in your intentions.
That's where everyone really differ.
